Happy Pi Approximation Day, everyone!  Failure is just success rounded down.


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My phone knows something I don’t and it is freaking me out.   Where am I going?

My phone knows something I don’t and it is freaking me out. Where am I going?

Innoncent Enough Expressions That I Find Oddly Insulting


"Wow.  Thanks for getting back to me so quickly."

"Oh, I don’t have time for that…"

"I can’t stay up that late to watch."

"I’m so out of the loop.  You always know what’s going on."

"Why do you get up so early?"

"You have no idea how lucky you are to have free time. When I go home from work I have a second job with my kids."

"You look healthy."

Agreed.  But also, I am sometimes the person who says the vaguely insulting thing.  Like the other day, I was having dinner with two of my dearest friends, one who is a parent of two and one who is working on her PhD, and they had just finished telling each other what they envied about each other’s respective lives (e.g. “I clean up poop all day and you get to do intellectual things!”  and  ”You’re actually doing important things and I’m just reading obscure biblical literature!”)  And I finally said, “I don’t envy either of your lives.”  

Which was true.  But probably insulting. 

(fortunately because they know and love me they knew what i meant)





(via nineplanets)





 i will reblog this as many times as it takes me to stop finding this funny


(Source: yousaytheydontcare, via nineplanets)

Cecil and Carlos 4ever.

Cecil and Carlos 4ever.

If you see something, say nothing, and drink to forget.  #nightvale #mpls

If you see something, say nothing, and drink to forget. #nightvale #mpls

Tags: nightvale mpls


This was quite a journey! I spent the better part of a day going back and forth with a guy that I was not entirely sure was for real at first, then I absolutely got fooled, and then I realized I got fooled. It was fun. The guy said some LEGITIMATELY funny stuff when he was “in character.” And it all ended in a way that I felt good about.

It’s pretty much all laid out in the screencaps, But let me elaborate here:

HEY YOUNG MEN! I know it seems like women complain a lot about how they are represented in media, including fiction, and how it seems like they want entertainment tailored specifically to them, and how they seem to want ALL of pop culture to be politically correct or feminist-ized or whatever it is you think they want, but really, what’s happening is that women are tired of seeing garbage women characters in most of our entertainment. And they’re wondering, Would it really be so much trouble to make more realized female characters? You could still have all your CGI and action and science fiction and drama and swords and stuff, but the female characters could be a little more fleshed out and interesting. And the entertainment would still be good and would, in fact, be better.

Guys, instead of  thinking, “Hey, not everything has to be politicized,” try thinking, “I wonder what it would be like for me if the situation were reversed, and how I’d feel if in the vast majority of the entertainment I consumed, the male characters were few and far between and then mostly used as talking props & plot devices. I wonder if I’d get kinda tired of that and occasionally I’d say something, even a little joke, just to ease the annoyance a little.”

Fellows. Listen to the women in your lives. Ask them questions. It will change your perspective for the better. Years ago, I got into a brief argument with two female friends of mine about a movie— it does not even matter which movie— that they viewed as sexist and I did not. I couldn;t even fathom how they could see it that way. I tried to argue that it was not sexist. In recounting our discussion to another party, it was pointed out to me that they might have a different viewpoint based on their life experiences, and that it was not for me to tell them that their interpretation was incorrect. And that I was probably getting defensive about it because if the movie was sexist, it followed that my liking it would make me appear sexist. And that’s when I realized that none of this was about me, and maybe I should shut up and listen and try to understand. And also to be more aware of things like this and develop not just my sympathy, but my empathy.

I will only ever be able to empathize so much with women, because my experience as a white male in America is vastly different from that of anyone who is not that. But I can relate to:

  • not being taken seriously
  • not being listened to
  • being dismissed
  • being condescended to
  • having something explained to me that I already understand

And I having had those experiences, I am now more inclined to TRY to understand where someone is coming from if they are telling me they are having a similar experience with our culture.

So guys: just try. You don’t even really have to dig that deep. Think about your own experiences as a person, then apply that to someone else. It gets easier the more you do it, and it makes your life better.

Anyway, I hear Dawn of The Planet of The Apes is pretty good!